There is one thing you need to remember,
" 3.2 HWS is a family-friendly server. There are minors and women who play on the server. Do not curse/swear or use other bad words in global chat - Keep it Clean!"
This applies to the discord, the forum, as well as the game itself.
If you are being asked to take your discussion elsewhere then there is likely a good reason.
“Keep it clean” means more than just not cussing. Certain topics are off limits.